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It's January 31st: Did You Forget Your New Year's Resolutions?

Personal Growth

Wed, January 31

It’s officially the end of a special month that marked the beginning of 2024 and inspired millions of New Year’s resolutions across the globe. January is a time for people to set long-term goals linked to self-improvement and lifestyle changes. Unfortunately, just after a week into the month, many people abandon these goals due to time constraints or discouragement.

According to the Fisher College of Business, 43% of people quit their resolutions by the end of this month. If your New Year’s Resolutions made it to January 31st, congratulations!

On the other hand, if you broke your goals for the new year, there is still time to turn things around. Every day is a chance to redirect yourself and succeed. Here are the best ways to follow your New Year’s resolutions, regardless of whether you broke them.

#1. Don’t Wait Until Next Year

If you had a delayed doctor’s appointment, would you reschedule it to 2025? Of course not! This scenario also applies to New Year’s Resolutions.

Many people have habits they want to form, such as studying consistently and reading avidly. If desirable habits were easy to form, they would not strengthen character or build discipline.

Waiting months for another chance to form healthy goals is not recommended. Adjust your thinking to have a growth mindset. This includes incorporating your resolutions into daily life in positive ways.

Discovering your ideal self is a process that isn’t defined until January 1st. Instead, it is spread throughout every day.

#2. Rely on Discipline, Not Inspiration

Inspiration eventually wears off, either due to life changes or new demands. Acknowledge the times when you feel discouraged from pursuing your goals with self-compassion. However, do not let temporary feelings obstruct your long-term progress.

Part of becoming your ideal self is growing despite burnout and decreased motivation. While you are on your self-growth journey, remember that getting adequate rest and appreciating the present are essential.

Activities that build discipline include engaging in self-care and avoiding procrastination. One way to stick to resolutions is starting with a realistic routine with minimal changes to your daily life. Over time, as you become used to your routine, make more impactful changes that adhere to your resolutions.

HubSpot reports that it takes weeks to months for long-lasting habits to form. Trying to follow your resolutions only when you feel motivated will result in inconsistency. Therefore, take small steps, not giant leaps.

#3. Break Resolutions Down into Parts

If your New Year’s resolutions are broader, forming plans to follow them can be challenging. Separate your goals into reasonable parts to follow throughout the year. For example, if you initially plan to only go to the gym regularly, re-plan to deadlift 196 pounds or work out five times weekly. This will give you a more detailed outline of your new exercise routine rather than simply becoming a gym-goer.

Having direct goals and clear ambitions is essential to forming lasting routines. Following your resolutions will become more manageable when you have defined goals. Remember, significant achievements start with small victories that accumulate over time.

#4. Acknowledge Why You Broke Them

Understanding why you did not stick to your goals is necessary to improve throughout the rest of 2024. Common causes of broken New Year’s resolutions include juggling responsibilities, procrastinating, and forming other time commitments. Analyze the motives behind your resolutions since it helps you find the willpower to follow them.

Work for a sense of passionate growth, not hatred toward aspects of your self-perceptions. For instance, if you wish to study consistently, do so out of a desire to learn instead of believing you are a terrible student. Habits formed based on optimism last longer than those created out of spite.

#5. Reconsider Unrealistic Resolutions

Sticking with resolutions that overpower your ability to commit to them is in vain. If your top resolution is overly ambitious or rigorous, you can burn out within days of creating it. You can also consider asking your loved ones to commit to resolutions with you.

This way, you can have a method in which you can encourage one another to reach the finish line. Meeting like-minded individuals who share your goals and interests is also beneficial, making achieving New Year’s resolutions less tedious. Many need improvement or want to form healthy habits. Now is the perfect opportunity – a fresh new month — to continue pursuing your dreams.

The most important of these steps is considering how willing you are to follow your resolutions. Creating them with a clear plan to achieve your goals is efficient. You must genuinely desire to break limits and improve yourself to follow long-term resolutions. If you haven’t made resolutions this year, every day is a new chance to start.

Some prefer monthly resolutions or small daily goals that accumulate into significant steps. They aren’t only confined on an annual basis. Finding the balance of what personally suits you is crucial to grow at your own pace.

Avoid comparing yourself to others since everyone grows at different rates and has varying access to specific opportunities. For example, a student with a tutor will likely perform better on exams than a student without one despite having resolutions to score well. It’s all about experimenting with different personal growth methods while cultivating balance – this is what resolutions are for.

Kelly Halliburton
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Kelly Halliburton is a member of the Creative Writing Conservatory at Orange County School of the Arts in Santa Ana, California. She enjoys writing poetry, volunteering, and reading. Through exploring themes of student life and personal growth, she aspires to project meaningful ideas in the community.

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