The first day of high school is a milestone in every student’s life. While growing up seeing how high school is portrayed in movies and TV can be exciting, but it can also be intimidating. As a senior, I can tell you many things you see in the movies don’t happen.
Understandably, new faces and new places can make the first few days feel overwhelming. Don't worry, I’m here as your upperclassman to guide you incoming freshman on your first day so you can navigate the transition smoothly.
Making New Friends
For most, the friend group you graduate middle school with is normally the one you start your freshman year with, but that’s not to say your friend group could change. For others, this could be a completely new district you are coming into and you could know no one. Regardless, you should aim to meet people and make new friends.
Being open and approachable can feel challenging, but a simple smile can make a person look welcoming. A quick "hi" in class and a brief conversation can be the start of something more, potentially blossoming into a lifelong friendship. On your first day of class try sitting next to someone you’ve never met and introducing yourself.
Another way to meet new people is by joining clubs and school activities. Surrounding yourself with people who have the same interests as you can make conversation even more interesting.
Clubs and activities at school are always open to new students and you can probably find out about them on your school’s website or by asking your teachers. Just remember that everyone has a bit of nerves on the first day so making that first move helps that person.
Navigating the Hallways
When transitioning into high school a new campus is normally the biggest change for students. I can vouch for that and say before my first day of school I was so stressed that I would get lost and be late to class but trust me everyone feels that way. Teachers and upperclassmen know that freshmen are unfamiliar with the building so they will always be there to help so don’t worry if you get lost on the first day.
The first thing you should do is ask your school if they provide any in-person tours and have a map of the school. That way you are familiar with the setup of the school without it being so crowded like it normally is. You can also walk to class with your friends so that way if you do get lost you’re not alone.
My number one tip when navigating the hallways is to ask for help. There will always be teachers and students in the halls so don’t be afraid to ask someone where a class is. Teachers will always help and tend to know the school better so if you’re afraid to ask an upperclassman just ask a teacher.
Handling Teachers and Classes
Your relationships with your teachers can really make or break your high school experience, so building that relationship with your teachers can make you stand out in class and make it easier to ask for help. You should make the same amount of effort when connecting with both your students and teachers, because a teacher will always be there to help you like a friend.
Building a good rapport with your teachers can be helpful, especially if you need extra help or a recommendation later on. Don’t be shy about introducing yourself after class or during office hours. To demonstrate this it’s important always to be respectful.
Teachers appreciate students who are respectful and attentive. You need to stay engaged in class and not be afraid to ask questions if you’re confused.
Balancing Schoolwork and Fun
You should never let school take over your social life. It’s key to balance work and fun to have a balanced high school experience and the best way to do this is time management. The best way to do this is by making a schedule that gives you enough time to rest and have fun while also keeping up with school. Avoid procrastination by setting aside specific times for studying.
High school can be some of the most stressful and exciting times of your life so don’t overbook yourself. Your mental health comes before anything so don’t forget to take care of your mental health. Whether it’s reading, exercising, or just relaxing, make sure you have time for yourself. If your school work is getting to be too much try talking to your teacher and your school counselor and see if you can work something out.
Dealing with Peer Pressure
You hear about the scary truth of peer pressure from everyone and how especially in high school it can be hard to avoid. Remember that in the end, it’s you who will hurt the most, not the person who pressures you. Declare what you’re comfortable with ahead of time, and don’t do something just to impress someone. Don’t be afraid to say no if something doesn’t feel right.
Choose friends who respect your decisions and encourage you to be your best self. A good support system can make a huge difference. If you’re feeling overwhelmed by peer pressure, talk to a trusted adult, like a teacher, guardian, or parent. They will be there to support you through anything.
Conclusion
No matter what, high school is a big deal so keep a safe mindset in mind and you can navigate it successfully. Remember, everyone is figuring it out as they go, so don’t be too hard on yourself. Embrace the new experiences, stay open to learning, and most importantly, be yourself. Good luck, freshman year is just the beginning of an exciting journey!
